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Watch Dr. Kanner discuss this topic this Monday, October 26th @ 8:20am on San Diego 6 News In The Morning.
Background: Most children are busy daydreaming this week about
getting ready for Halloween parties and trick or treating next Saturday.
However, Halloween can be both a fun or scary experience depending upon
certain precautions that parents need to put in place. To begin with,
costumes can be both amusing and fun but also quite frightening when
considering the age of the child.
For the under 6- year olds, too much exposure to costumes or
decorations involving blood, guts, or mangled body parts, as well as
too scary a costume, can evoke both extreme anxiety and bad dreams. In
some cases, such over-stimulation can cause fears which can last up to
a month or longer. Parents of this group of children need to both be
careful what they allow their child to wear as well as what they are
exposed to during the Halloween ritual. It is recommended that this
group begin trick or treating as early as possible and end before the
older children get onto the streets wearing graphic costumes and
engaging in possible pranks. Obviously, parents need to stay very close
to the children in this age group. In addition, when approaching homes
with creepy decorations, be sensitive as to whether your child will be
too affected by the decor and if so, you may wish to miss that
particular house. Haunted houses are also NOT recommended for the under
6 year-olds for the same reasons as mentioned regarding costumes and
decorations for children in this age group are still between fantasy
and reality thinking and graphic exposure may feel "too real" to them
causing undue anxiety.
For the 6 to 11 year-olds, it is suggested that parents also stay close
by as they venture onto the streets due to possible dangers that could
occur due to group behaviors and the effects of anonminity that wearing
costumes can cause - for example, children are more likely to act out
if their identity is masked. In addition, impulsiveness increases in
numbers. Therefore, parents are needed to safeguard the grade school
aged child.
Regarding the early to middle adolescents, they will most
likely try to ditch any parent who attempts to tag along, but it is
still suggested that the parents of this age group are still somewhere
present in the neighborhood - perhaps in a parked car at the end of the
street - here, the adolescent has some independence but also some
supervision to help keep them from getting into any trouble. Hopefully,
the post 16 year olds have given up trick or treating, so this should
not be an issue for most parents.
As always, parents need to check through the candy and toss
away anything that is unwrapped or seems questionable. Furthermore,
limits need to be placed on the amount of candy eaten in order to avoid
potential negative health effects. Following these guidelines should
assist in a fun and happy Halloween.
Safe Halloween Planning Key Points:
1. For the under 6-year-olds, be careful about exposure to scary costumes/houses.
2. Start the evening early for the small children to avoid older children antics.
3. Up to preadolescence, parents need to be chaperones for safety.
4. For the early to middle adolescent, position yourself at a checkpoint.
5. Always check through candy and limit consumption.
You can follow Dr. Kanner on both www.sandiego6.com and www.kanner.tv
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About drkanner
Dr. Kanner is a Licensed Clinical Child, Adolescent, and Adult Psychologist and Psychoanalyst with a full time private practice in Rancho Santa Fe, California. He is also an Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry in the School of Medicine at U.C. San Diego and a Clinical Instructor and Supervisor at the San Diego Psychoanalytic Society and Institute. Recently, he has become the Director of Clinical Counseling for La Jolla Country Day School and has been named to the National Board of Directors for KidsKorps, USA. He continues as a Consultant for many public and private schools in San Diego and has also received distinguished teaching awards over the past seven years. He is a published author and a sought after speaker on topics pertaining to childhood, adolescence, and parenthood. He is also presently writing a book for Fox based on his show, Your Family Matters.
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